Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Strategies to use for parenting your kids and teens


There are a lot of things that need to be considered in young children of your own to turn into a cute adorable children of school age and fixed in later to manage adolescents.
Between 2 and 4 years of age, and are encouraging parents to be patient on the management of young children, teaching them some of the behaviors of good and appropriate ways to behave, such as participation, saying "please" and "thank you". These basic lessons are the most important lessons taught, as well as the most important to be learned. However, the elderly and children less than get the lessons that seem to remember. Face of this, and parents often resort to desperate methods of bribery between the other for their children to do all that is asked of them.......

Be positive



But as parents, we must understand that this is part of your child's growth and learning, experience and care for them more than you ever need to be patient with your offspring. This is why it is always advised the use of praise, and point out strengths, and compliment their children through the recognition of all the times that are good and always give them positive feedback; all in the name of self-confidence.

The use of discipline

Of course, there are cases when children do wrong things and praise would not be appropriate. It is very common for parents to punish them. But they refer to the discipline rather than punishment. Remind your children about what they made mistakes, causing you to have discipline and not on long-term memory and placed in full. When it came time to discipline do not use yelling or beating as a last resort. The children will learn nothing but hatred and fear.

Of choice with your child
Such as children grow, they may not be open and sharing as they used to be when it comes to their feelings and emotions.Make it a habit to check in with your child every day. Dinner is a good chance to catch up on what is going on at school or with friends. Try not to ask general questions "Do you have a good day?" Or "How was your day?". Children are sure to be confined to "yes" or "No", answers, "Fine." To open the way for good communication to ask for updates. For example, "What happened to you today?" Or "What is the most fun thing you did today?"
Try to be a good listener first and foremost. Some teens do not appreciate their parents or a judge to comment on their experiences. I respect that. Confidence-building. Thus, it will be children who are interested in your opinion and advice.

Be respected
And one more thing to keep in mind, it is very important for parents to show respect for their children by not discussing him / her with relatives or friends.
Should be given to children and adolescents a lot of consideration because they are in the age of change and configuration. It is the duty of parents to raise them to the good men and women using the right tactics and manage their own emotions.


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